It's unfortunate that this writer didn't see these traits as human and not so broken down between the genders. Too much generalizing and not enough reality. Financial security? Try that, you 40+ million people without health insurance? Dinner on the table and well-behaved kids? Sure, if most families didn't need 2+ incomes to run a household, and kids weren't returning to an empty house after school. And women don't need to be admired by their men? Hmmm... I guess all of my "male" needs really do stem from deep-seated psychological problems and not just being human.

If you're thinking that this was written a long time ago, check out the Christian marriage websites. Sounds kinda nice on paper, I suppose, but in practice, fuggedaboutit!

TB most definitely should have removed this stuff from his documents. Perhaps he just wasn't getting enough sexual fulfillment, recreational companionship, domestic support or admiration. Or maybe his wife's just butt-ugly. Who knows? Obviously, he has issues.